moments to remember

I may be a little late with the timing… but I’m okay with that. Even though Christmas has come and gone, I still wanted to share some of our holiday highlights from this year! So, a little personal photo dump of precious moments to remember...

Levi’s first snow:

Having a fresh tree:

Untangling Christmas lights:

Levi helping to decorate his first tree:

Shiny, pretty things:

Celebrating Norwegian-style with my grandparents:

The novelty of being all bundled up in winter clothes:

Christmassy flannel footy jammies:

Meeting the big guy for the first time:

Special times with my parents, including dedicating Levi at our American church:

Days spent not changing out of our pj's:

Hot tubbing in the snow:

Quality and quantity time with my awesome husband:

Morning sleep-ins and family cuddle time in bed:

Dressing up for Christmas Eve church:

Levi's first gift on Christmas Eve:

Opening our stockings in bed on Christmas morning:

Taking our time enjoying the small things:

Precious moments with precious people, including all four of Levi's grandparents and four of his six living great-grandparents:

Christmas round two during a long layover in Sydney on our way home:

And a smooth, easy, fun trip home:

Dear friends, it’s hard to imagine life without digital photos… or even just any kind of photos. Aren’t we blessed to be able to capture memories visually like this? I hope you were able to get some great Christmas photos this year too.

glad for the memories caught on "film",

adriel booker | the mommyhood memos | 2010 
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dedicated to God

This weekend we had Levi’s baby dedication at church.

As parents, Ryan and I believe that children are a gift from God, and that becoming parents means that we are entrusted with the awesome responsibility and privilege of raising them to the best of our ability.

To us, having a baby dedication ceremony is merely a public confession of something that we do every day:

There is not a night that goes by that I don’t thank God for the beautiful gift of Levi’s life, and not a day that goes by that we don’t dedicate ourselves to the incredible task of raising him to be a young man who loves God and loves people according to our faith.

As Levi comes of age himself he will choose if he wants to follow God or not. That is his decision, not our own.

Our commitment to him in the meantime is that we do our best to demonstrate God’s heart of love, compassion, kindness, grace, acceptance, humility, wisdom, justice, and mercy so that his view of God will be as accurate as possible as it comes time for his faith to become his own.

{levi was busy preaching up a storm and waving to everyone during the entire thing.}

So as we stood up in front of the congregation along with my in-laws at Levi’s baby dedication, we publicly declared our intention to walk out our commitment to him in teaching him and training him in life and faith. We thanked God—once again—for the amazing gift of Levi’s life, and we dedicated our little family to the One we believe is the Giver of Life and All Things Good.

{and... now for the double-handed wave. also pictured, "nanny and bop" - ryan's parents.}

Dear friends, isn’t it an amazing privilege and responsibility to have children? What is one thing that you are dedicated to that helps you to parent your child well?

dedicated to raising my son well,

adriel booker | the mommyhood memos | 2010 
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it takes a village

Ryan and I are great parents. {grin} We’re not perfect by any means but we do our best. In my opinion, that means we’re “great”.

But even “great” parents aren’t enough to raise healthy, balanced kids. Children need input, affection, acceptance, and attention from others as well.

You’ve heard the expression, “It takes a village…”?

Granted, if we were the last two adults on earth, I’m sure Ryan and I would be able to do a good job raising our kids… and they could be “healthy and balanced.” (So maybe we are "enough" in that sense.) But, since we are not the last two people on earth – and our kids need to learn how to relate to a whole range of people (not just dear old mom and dad) – it makes sense to me that they need others to help raise them and expose them to different personalities, different interests, different world views, different approaches, and different outlooks on life.

Of course as a parent of a young child, I’m going to be more selective with the people my child spends time with… That’s part of my responsibility to him: to lovingly protect and filter in ways that he can’t yet do for himself. But as time goes on—although I will continue to monitor—I will also be more and more releasing of that responsibility to him (as age-appropriate of course).

That is one of the reasons that I believe extended family is so important for Levi. These are people that we know and trust and understand their motives and values – people that I want him (and future children) to be around and be influenced by.

But in our case, as with most people, the term “family” stretches beyond actual relatives to include a number of good friends.

Since my natural family lives in another country, and Ryan’s natural family lives a 30-hour car drive away, the “family” (friends) surrounding us has become that much more important. Although friends can never completely replace our biological families (nor should they), they do serve an incredibly important role in filling out our families.

Enter... the Aunties.

Levi has lots of “Aunties” (and “Uncles” too for that matter), but the ones pictured above – Katie, Kate, and Jen – are some of our favorites. These are women that love and adore our son almost as much as we do. These are women who we trust to care for him. These are women who we want to influence his life because we love who they are and what they stand for.

Of course there are some other very important “aunties and uncles” in addition to those three… but these three are the ones I have a great photo of, so they are the ones that get “picked on” today. {grin}

We love Auntie Katie, Auntie Kate, and Auntie Jen. Not only do they practically help us with caring for Levi (awesome babysitters are such a blessing!) but they have become an extension of our family, which is important not only to Ryan and I, but also to Levi. (And even more so since his “real life” aunt and uncles and grandparents live so far away.)

We’re so thankful for their positive influence in Levi’s life. (As well as the other aunties and uncles that are too many to name individually here!)

I wish every kid got to have aunties that love and adore them as much as these aunties love and adore Levi. No doubt he will grow up feeling valued and treasured thanks, in part, to these ladies sharing their lives with him and investing into his childhood (which is an investment into his future).

Having good "aunties" (and "uncles") to help shape and teach our little ones in their formative years will—no doubt—make them better men and women one day.

This kind of “family” means so much to us, and we count our blessings to have them in our lives.

Dear friends, what about you? Do your children have bonus “aunties and uncles”? What do they mean to you? And how do you hope they will help shape your children’s future?

lovin the aunties,

adriel booker | the mommyhood memos | 2010 
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