8 tips for running a business as a work-at-home mom

By Amanda Stock, author of AmandaStock.com and Baby Bump Diaries

{This post is part of the Moms Who Work series.}

Working at home and owning my own business. Oh, I pictured it as lovely also – a warm cup of coffee, pajamas, the birds chirping, beautiful rays of sunshine cascading over my clean desk, and my toddler quietly playing with wooden blocks on pristine white carpet. In my vision, I even have all of the laundry folded and grocery shopping done.  

That daydream is my happy place. The place I go in my mind while reality is happening – a luke warm cup of coffee, my pajamas and the important papers all over my desk both soaked with milk, my toddler running around half naked with an empty sippy cup, while I am on the phone with the babysitter who just canceled for that afternoon…. 

And that was just my first day on the job!  

Owning my own business has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I put it next to motherhood on my biggest achievements list. It gives me the extra kick I need in my life and as long as I keep everything balanced I get the best of both “worlds” – working and raising my daughter full time.  

I take care of a husband, a two year old, a business, myself, and a household. Juggling all of these things requires a lot of practice and skill. It took me a long while to find that perfect balance and along the way I have discovered some very effective guidelines to keep the balance and help myself and my family remain sane.  

1. Always make time for your husband or partner. I’m talking love him, cherish him, and make him your world. At the end of a crazy day, sometimes the only thing I can think about is how fast my head can hit the pillow. But always take time for him even if it is just a few minutes and remember that after the kids are gone and you retire, you will still have him.

2. Savor the moments you spend with your children. It goes by too fast. Be in the moment as much as possible.

3. Go out with your friends at least once per month and make time for vacations. Taking a break is the best way to renew your creativity and strength.

4. Delegate, both in work and home life. You can do it all sure, but it won’t all be done well and will most likely end in disaster or a nervous breakdown. Remember you are raising the next generation here. If you want to maintain a high level of quality you have to learn to delegate. Understand which tasks are the most time consuming for you and figure out how to get them off your plate. Can you outsource certain tasks or hire a virtual assistant? And never use the excuse you can’t afford it because the more time you free up the more time you have to do the tasks that bring serious results to your business, which means more income.

5. Prioritize and know what brings the most results. Owning your business requires a lot of work, but knowing exactly what activities bring you the most results will keep you moving forward rather than treading water.

6. Schedule specific times to complete your work and hire a mother’s helper if needed. Try not to use up your husband’s free time unless money is tight. For example, I work daily during my daughters nap time. If I have a big project or tight deadlines I have a babysitter come to the house for a few hours and do home school preschool activities with my daughter while I get caught up. My husband comes home and then we are all together without distractions.

7. Always keep a notebook close and jot down ideas when you are outside of your normal working hours. If you need to spend time thinking about or brainstorming something, then make sure your kids can have fun while you think. I grab a notepad and head to the playground or beach. It is even better when you can grab some work at home moms you love and do this as a group. My daughter has a blast and we get some quality brainstorming time.

8. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Know that you have to balance much more than a 9-5 job. Know you won’t be able to compare yourself to those who put 14 hour days into their business. If you can’t finish something today, do it tomorrow. Make obtainable goals and celebrate every success!

Bio: Amanda Stock has over 9 years of online marketing experience. She is a work-at-home mother who helps entrepreneurs build successful, result-driven online businesses. Visit AmandaStock.com or BabyBumpDiaries.com to connect with her.

Further reading in this series:

• All moms work hard
• How to be a stay-at-home mom without losing your marbles
• Mom on a wire: finding balance and sanity in a home with two working parents
• You have spoken: the best and worst of being a working mom (away from home)
• How I became a pediatrician turned stay-at-home mom
• The pros and cons of being a work-from-home mom
• From home to work or work to home: speaking up about the transition process
• Back to work: tips for how to prepare for the transition after maternity leave
• Are stay-at-home moms 1950ish? (readers speak up about the best and worst of being a SAHM)
• 4 ways single moms are thriving

Dear mommy-friends, how great are these tips?! I don't even own my own business but I feel inspired by reading Amanda's tips. What are one or two things that jumped out at you from her post? Which of her ideas would you like to implement in your home and work? Are you a business-owning mom? Share some of your tips for surviving and thriving while you juggle it all.

inspired by this successful mama,

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